February 12, 2009
The Real Racists.
I started this blog to talk about some of the things I can't talk about at work. So, here's one of them. Racism. A colleague of mine was just 're-organized'. Now, never mind how 1984 that sounds, I'll relay to you a conversation that I had with her just after this happened. Her supervisor, a cold witch of a woman, was talking to this woman about her young son and the preschool she was planning to send him to. She told my (now former) colleague how it was important to get into the right preschool and that education is very important in my family. I told "K", that it sounded to me like what she was saying was that education is very important in my white family, but you are black, so obviously, education is not very important to you. "K" said to me-you said it, not me. I'm glad I said it, because I think that's really what the supervisor meant. She has other minority women in her department and treats them like complete crap. The thing is, the supervisor considers herself a beacon of progressive thinking, supports gay marriage and all the 'correct' causes. But when it comes down to it, how enlightened is she really? The point of this post is to ask if any of you have had experiences of what I would characterize as 'inverse' racism?
What I mean is, have you witnessed or been subject to truly racist sentiments by the people who are supposed to be the most liberal and enlightened of us all?
Another colleague once joked to me that she is concerned about her parents taking her young son out on outings because her father has bad vision and her mother has a physical disability. She said 'we joke that it's the blind leading the disabled'. I almost lost my breath. This woman is a militant lesbian who took a lot of pleasure in trying to shock me with a reveal of her sexual orientation-she didn't get the shock she was looking for, but that's a whole other story.
Hypocrites really make me sick.
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Oh, sweetie, you've got a lot to learn. Have I witnessed or been subject to truly racist sentiments by the people who are supposed to be the most liberal and enlightened of us all? I'm on the south side of Chicago. Rev. "G.D. America" Wright is my neighbor. Fr. "I'm white and I'm entitled" Pfleger is the local priest and Kanye "George Bush doesn't care about black people" West owns the local burger joint. Don't even get me started on Jesse Jackson!
You want to know how racism plays out here? REAL racism?
The Chicago City Council voted to approve the purchase of Michael Reese Hospital to pay for an Olympic Village if Chicago wins the 2016 Olympics. Minority alderman exemplified a nasty mix of protectionism that's common to Chicago:
“I want some skin in my community,” said Ald. Ed Smith (28th).
Ald. Freddrenna Lyle (6th) demanded a “spreading of the wealth in a non-communistic kind of sense because it’s happening in our house” and Olympic planners have to “play by our rules.”
“These are the rules of the game here in Chicago. It’s just a sharing of the equities. It is the way things should be done — without us saying it,” Lyle said.
Ah, yes, I'm quite familiar with this sort of condescending schmuck; this is the sort of moron who who believes that to be a liberal is to be morally superior.
What comes out of her mouth might sound like racism, or the infantilization of a group or race, if it means excusing the worst of behavior by putting it into 'proper context', but it isn't racist or stereotypical.
It might even seem annoying when someone who professes to "not see color" bends over backwards to ensure that everything she says is drenched with references to it, just to prove how earnest, sensitive and enlightened she is.
The worst is the person who speaks to her minority co-workers in that lilting-praise voice usually reserved for the family pet.
These people are absolute slugs, and I think they're mentally ill. They actually *do* harbor racist thoughts and feelings -- but hide them under layers of ideology and psychobabble -- and then they lay in wait for others to betray the same so that they may report them to HR and thus salve their own souls.
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